A question for both males and females?

I'm sure you're not the only one out there, but it's weird that you can't tell if a male is attractive or not. Usually, the way someone tells if another is attractive or not is to take your dream self (dream hair, dream body, etc) and compare it to the other person... at least, thats how I do it. Older people (40s and up) tend to not be attractive to younger people (teens and early 20s). Just don't think about it too much,because it's not that big of a deal.